21 Memorial Day facts every family should know
Memorial Day is a time of deep reflection and solemn gratitude. It’s a day to honor the brave service members who gave their lives defending our country and protecting our freedoms. As families gather, it’s an opportunity to pause, reflect, and share the stories and sacrifices that shape our nation's history. Here are 21 facts to help your family better understand the significance of Memorial Day and to inspire conversations grounded in remembrance and respect.
The origins and evolution of Memorial Day
1. Memorial Day originated after the Civil War
It began in the late 1860s as "Decoration Day," when Americans decorated the graves of soldiers who died in the Civil War.
2. The first large observance was in 1868
On May 30, 1868, General John A. Logan called for a national day of remembrance. Ceremonies were held at Arlington National Cemetery.
3. Waterloo, New York, was designated the holiday's birthplace
In 1966, Congress declared Waterloo, New York, the official birthplace because it held an annual, community-wide day of remembrance beginning in 1866.
4. Memorial Day became a federal holiday in 1971
The Uniform Monday Holiday Act established Memorial Day as a federal holiday observed on the last Monday of May.
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5. Originally, it was observed on May 30
Before the 1971 legislation, Memorial Day was observed annually on May 30, regardless of the day of the week.
6. Many states observed it before it was a federal holiday
By the late 1800s, Memorial Day was already a recognized state holiday in most northern states.
Honoring the fallen: customs and ceremonies
7. Over 1.3 million U.S. service members have died in wartime
According to the U.S. Department of Defense, more than 1.3 million military members have died in America’s wars.
8. About 620,000 died in the Civil War alone
The Civil War is the deadliest conflict in U.S. history, accounting for nearly half of all U.S. military deaths.
9. The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier was established in 1921
Located in Arlington National Cemetery, the tomb honors unidentified service members and has been continuously guarded since 1937.
10. Arlington National Cemetery holds a major wreath-laying ceremony
Each Memorial Day, the president or vice president lays a wreath at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier.
11. Taps is a military bugle call traditionally played at funerals
"Taps" was composed in 1862 during the Civil War and is now standard at military funerals and Memorial Day ceremonies.
12. Many cemeteries hold "Flags-In" events
Volunteers and veterans' groups place small American flags at the graves of fallen service members each Memorial Day.
13. Over 130 national cemeteries exist across the U.S.
Operated by the Department of Veterans Affairs, these cemeteries serve as final resting places for service members.
14. The American Battle Monuments Commission maintains overseas cemeteries
This federal agency maintains 26 overseas military cemeteries where more than 200,000 American service members are buried.
Symbols of remembrance
15. The red poppy is a recognized symbol of remembrance
Inspired by the poem "In Flanders Fields," red poppies were first adopted as a remembrance symbol by Moina Michael in 1918.
16. Gold Star families represent those who lost a loved one in service
The Gold Star symbol originated in World War I and remains a designation for families of fallen military members.
17. The U.S. flag follows a specific tradition on Memorial Day
On Memorial Day, the flag is flown at half-staff from sunrise until noon, then raised to full-staff until sunset.
National observance and public participation
18. The National Moment of Remembrance occurs at 3 PM
A federal law passed in 2000 encourages all Americans to pause for one minute at 3 PM local time on Memorial Day.
19. President Bill Clinton signed the remembrance act
The National Moment of Remembrance Act was signed into law in 2000 to foster a unified expression of gratitude.
20. The largest Memorial Day parade is in Washington, D.C.
The National Memorial Day Parade draws thousands of participants and spectators and is nationally televised.
21. Memorial Day and Veterans Day serve different purposes
Veterans Day honors all who have served in the U.S. military, while Memorial Day is dedicated to remembering those who gave their lives in service.
Memorial Day is an opportunity to reflect, remember, and share the stories of those who gave everything. However you observe the day, may it be filled with gratitude and purpose.
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