Tips for flying with kids: What you need to know

Taking to the skies with little ones in tow? Don't let the horror stories scare you off. It might seem like you're preparing for a mission to Mars, but with a little prep and a dash of patience, you’ll be cruising at 30,000 feet with happy, occupied kids in no time. 

What do kids need to fly?

First things first, let's talk about essential documents. If you're traveling domestically within the U.S., kids under 18 years old do not need an official form of identification. 

If you're flying internationally, your child will need a valid passport. Some countries may also require additional documents, such as a visa or proof of vaccinations. Always check with the airline and destination country's requirements before traveling.

Tips for flying with kids

Flying with kids can be fun. Seriously! Here are some tips to make your flight experience smoother and more enjoyable with kids in tow.

1. Check airline guidelines

Each airline has different guidelines for flying with children. Make sure you check their policies on items such as strollers, car seats, and carry-on luggage. Doing this ahead of time can help avoid any surprises or issues at the airport. 

2. Pack wisely

Bring essential, security-safe items like disinfecting wipes, snacks, toys, diapers, and extra clothes in a carry-on bag to keep your kids comfortable during the flight. 

3. Check in early

Arrive at the airport early to avoid long lines and give yourself plenty of time to get through security and to the gate. This also allows for any unexpected delays or issues that may arise. It might also allow for a quick meal at the airport if you didn’t have time to eat before. 

4. Plan for comfort

Dress your child in comfortable clothes and bring a small pillow or blanket for them to use during the flight. If they have a favorite stuffed animal or toy, bring it along, too, if space allows.

5. Prepare for takeoff and landing

Plane transitions like take-off and landing can be uncomfortable for kids due to changes in air pressure. Encourage them to yawn, chew gum, or drink water to help ease any discomfort. For babies, a strategically timed feeding session can sometimes help minimize discomfort, too. 

6. Keep them entertained

Bring along age-appropriate activities such as coloring books, puzzles, or electronic devices to keep your child occupied during the flight. You can also download movies or games onto a tablet beforehand.

7. Bring snacks and drinks

Airline food may not always be kid-friendly, so it's a good idea to bring snacks and post-security drinks for your child. Consider avoiding foods that are messy or may cause allergy flare-ups.

FAQs for flying with kids

Q: Do kids need ID to fly?

A: For domestic flights within the U.S., kids under 18 do not need a form of identification. For international flights, a valid passport is required, and sometimes additional documentation depending on the airline and destination. 

Q: Can I bring a stroller for my child on the flight?

A: Most airlines allow for strollers to be checked in at the gate or brought as carry-on luggage. Check with your specific airline for their guidelines and restrictions.

Q: How early should I arrive at the airport when flying with kids?

A: It's generally recommended to arrive at the airport at least 2 hours before domestic flights and 3 hours before international flights when traveling with children. This allows extra time for any unforeseen delays, restroom breaks, or additional security checks.

Q: What can help my child sleep on the plane?

A: For younger kids, toddlers, and babies, comfort items like their favorite blanket or a travel pillow can promote sleep. Also, consider scheduling flights around their normal nap times and, if allowed, using a car seat where they might feel more secure and comfortable.

Q: Are there pre-boarding options for families?

A: Many airlines offer the option to pre-board for families with small children. Check with your airline before traveling to see if it’s available and how to access this benefit.

Q: How can I help my child with ear pain during flights?

A: You can sometimes help alleviate ear pain by sucking on candy, using a pacifier for infants, chewing gum, or swallowing. Encourage these activities, particularly during takeoff and landing when pressure changes are most significant.

Q: What should I do if my child gets motion sickness?

A: To prevent motion sickness, encourage your child to look at the horizon, avoid reading or screen time, and eat a light meal before flying. Over-the-counter medication might help, but consult with a pediatrician first.

Q: Will airport security allow me to bring milk or juice for my child?

A: The TSA allows parents to bring milk, juice, and baby formula in reasonable quantities that might exceed the usual 3.4-ounce limit for liquids. Declare these items at the checkpoint for inspection and always check TSA regulations before flying in case of any policy changes. 

Q: Can I use a child harness or seat belt extender on the plane?

A: Check with the airline about their policies on child harnesses or seatbelt extenders. Most airlines provide seat belt extenders, but personal devices might need to meet specific criteria or be FAA-approved.

Flying with kids may not always be smooth sailing, but using these tips and knowing what essential documents your child needs can make the experience easier. When possible, plan ahead, pack wisely and bring stuff to keep your kids comfortable and entertained during the flight. Bon voyage!